Tuesday, April 29, 2008

Ask The Expert

Ask The Expert - Dr. Diana Wiley is a new feature in our increasingly popular Better Sex Forum.

The Better Sex Forum already includes lively peer conversations about topics such as:

* Does the g-spot really exist? (in sex tips for her thread)
* What is the male G-Spot? (in sex tips for him thread)
* How do I give him a blow job? (sex positions thread)
* Read and contribute to erotic fiction stories (Erotic Fiction thread).

Go to the Better Sex Forum and share your thoughts.

New Better Sex Video Shorts

Be sure to watch our new short videos featuring Dr. Lori Buckley and Dr. Diana Wiley on our Lifetime.BetterSex.com site. Each video is about five minutes. We have three video shorts right now covering questions you may have about erectile dysfunction (ED), menopause and lubrication.

Watch these videos because if a picture is worth a thousand words a moving picture is worth a million.

Look for the camera icon and be sure to share your comments. Go directly to the Better sex educational short video page.

Talk Sex To Review Great Sex

The Oxygen Network's Sue Johanson will review our new Great Sex For A Lifetime 2 DVD set on Monday May 4th (midnight or 11 central). If you've never seen Sue's show we highly recommend it. Sue is a funny, engaging sex educator who handles any question with grace, accuracy and intelligence. Check out the Sue Johanson mini-site on Oxygen or go directly to the Talk Sex with Sue Johanson's web site.

Sue Johanson Reviews Great Sex For A Lifetime
Sunday, May 4th on Oxygen.

Saturday, April 19, 2008

Sisyphus and Better Sex

sisyphus-better-sexIf you’ve forgotten Greek Mythology Sisyphus was the founder and King of Corinth. Sisyphus was not humble. He thought he was smarter than Zeus. Zeus being the King of the Gods, the ruler of Mount Olympus and the god of sky and thunder did not appreciate Sisyphus’s arrogance. You don’t mess with Mother Nature or Zeus, so the gods punished Sisyphus in a unique way. Sisyphus would roll a heavy stone up a mountain for all eternity. The rough part was Sisyphus was never allowed to reach the top of the hill. Each attempt to summit the bolder was futile. Just before the top of the hill Sisyphus would lose his grip. The rock would tear its way back down the mountain. This futile task became nomenclature for all futile tasks. The term “Sisyphean Challenge” came to describe any pointless task or unrewarding routine.

If your sex life sounds like a Sisyphean Challenge you are not alone. A seemingly infinite routine of boring frustration is among The Sinclair Institute’s most common complaints. Here are three quick ideas to push, move, recycle or dynamite your love life to a more rewarding place, to get your boulder to the top of the hill.

The Better Sex Video Series

We know this recommendation is a tad self-serving, but literally millions of people have purchased, watched and love our adult sex education series. The power of this three DVD set is in what they do for you not in what they are. That sounds like freshman philosophy class, but it explains an important concept. These DVD’s get you talking about something that is hard to talk about. You see explicit demonstrations and then you get to say, “Yeah let’s try that.” Sex therapist add their “you are not alone” advice in too. The power of the information is in the freedom it creates. Not everyone’s sex life is helped by our series. This is why we have a 100% satisfaction guarantee. If any of our products don’t help you we get your money back to you. Just remember, the DVD’s don’t increase your happiness, love making knowledge and power nor do they intensive your orgasm. You do all that. The Better Sex Video Series just helps you get the rock to the top of the hill.

Sex Toys, Sex Toys and More Sex Toys

There is a reason they are called sex toys and not sex tools. Sex toys are fun. Sex tools sound like work and you would get them easily confused with stuff you buy at Home Depot. If you are not part of the “sex toy generation”, then either buy the book Tickle His Pickle or our Better Sex Guide to Toys (sometimes we give this DVD away free with a $24 purchase). How can you tell if you are NOT part of the sex toy generation? If you think “twitter” is a group of nerdy kids you grew up with then buy the book or our guide.

Vibration is important enough to be our third recommendation. Sure there are great toys that don’t vibrate, but, if you only have one sex toy, make sure it vibrates. Just as Moore’s Law is changing our computing lives (more power in less space for less money every year), there is a similar though less well know law for vibrators called Martin’s Law. Martin’s Vibrator Law states that every year the power of vibrators will double as size and costs are reduced by a third. Best demonstrations of this law for women would be the Rotating G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator, for men the Rude Boy Prostate Massager and for couples the Triple Orgasm Cock Ring (or the Double Dolphin Cock Ring).

Tuesday, April 15, 2008

2008 Better Sex Erotic Fiction Contest

Searching For D. H. Lawrence
We are on the hunt once again for the hottest erotic fiction writer in the world. Last year our over 300 writers from 9 countries entered the BetterSex.com Erotic Fiction Contest. One lucky writer, A. J. Riley, earned our $2,000 grand prize and 18 others won cash and inclusion into the first book we ever published. Want to buy the Better Sex Erotic Fiction book? You are not alone. In fact we are out of stock at the moment, but more copies are on the way.

Fun Better Sex Erotic Fiction Contest Facts
Does anyone use their real name to write erotic fiction?
Nope, every writer asked for a pen name.

Are there more women or men erotic fiction writers?
Women out numbered men almost 3 to 1 so enrolling in a writing class may be a really good way to meet interesting women (we are thinking).

Is it true you created an audio CD?
Yep, you can listen to 6 of the stories on the Better Sex Erotic Stories CD (and it is in stock).

What is it like to read all those stories?
We read over 300 stories last year to find 19 great ones, but the quality of the writing overall was excellent so it was a lot of fun and, at times, embarrassing.

How much will I win this year?
We are working on this year's prizes. All we know right now is there will be more than one and cash will be involved. Cash is good. Cash works. Keep up your confidence and start writing.

How can I enter this year's contest?
Great question. If you would like to get a jump on the competition, you may send your 3,000 word (or less) erotic story to Martin at is email msmtih at bettersex.com. Our authors always retain their copyrights. We ask for permission to include stories on our site for voting. Money awards include a limited release to use stories in specific ways like in our book or on our web site. Official rules and information will be published here and at BetterSex.com soon. Check back and keep writing.