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Sisyphus and Better Sex

If you’ve forgotten Greek Mythology Sisyphus was the founder and King of Corinth. Sisyphus was not humble. He thought he was smarter than Zeus. Zeus being the King of the Gods, the ruler of Mount Olympus and the god of sky and thunder did not appreciate Sisyphus’s arrogance. You don’t mess with Mother Nature or Zeus, so the gods punished Sisyphus in a unique way. Sisyphus would roll a heavy stone up a mountain for all eternity. The rough part was Sisyphus was never allowed to reach the top of the hill. Each attempt to summit the bolder was futile. Just before the top of the hill Sisyphus would lose his grip. The rock would tear its way back down the mountain. This futile task became nomenclature for all futile tasks. The term “Sisyphean Challenge” came to describe any pointless task or unrewarding routine.

If your sex life sounds like a Sisyphean Challenge you are not alone. A seemingly infinite routine of boring frustration is among The Sinclair Institute’s most common complaints. Here are three quick ideas to push, move, recycle or dynamite your love life to a more rewarding place, to get your boulder to the top of the hill.

The Better Sex Video Series
We know this recommendation is a tad self-serving, but literally millions of people have purchased, watched and love our adult sex education series. The power of this three DVD set is in what they do for you not in what they are. That sounds like freshman philosophy class, but it explains an important concept. These DVD’s get you talking about something that is hard to talk about. You see explicit demonstrations and then you get to say, “Yeah let’s try that.” Sex therapist add their “you are not alone” advice in too. The power of the information is in the freedom it creates. Not everyone’s sex life is helped by our series. This is why we have a 100% satisfaction guarantee. If any of our products don’t help you we get your money back to you. Just remember, the DVD’s don’t increase your happiness, love making knowledge and power nor do they intensive your orgasm. You do all that. The Better Sex Video Series just helps you get the rock to the top of the hill.

Sex Toys, Sex Toys and More Sex Toys
There is a reason they are called sex toys and not sex tools. Sex toys are fun. Sex tools sound like work and you would get them easily confused with stuff you buy at Home Depot. If you are not part of the “sex toy generation”, then either buy the book Tickle His Pickle or our Better Sex Guide to Toys (sometimes we give this DVD away free with a $24 purchase). How can you tell if you are NOT part of the sex toy generation? If you think “twitter” is a group of nerdy kids you grew up with then buy the book or our guide.

Vibrators
Vibration is important enough to be our third recommendation. Sure there are great toys that don’t vibrate, but, if you only have one sex toy, make sure it vibrates. Just as Moore’s Law is changing our computing lives (more power in less space for less money every year), there is a similar though less well know law for vibrators called Martin’s Law. Martin’s Vibrator Law states that every year the power of vibrators will double as size and costs are reduced by a third. Best demonstrations of this law for women would be the Rotating G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator, for men the Rude Boy Prostate Massager and for couples the Triple Orgasm Cock Ring (or the Double Dolphin Cock Ring).

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5 Tips For Better Sex Tonight

Tip # 1: Respect

Most people agree that one of the biggest pleasures in a relationship is through mutual respect. Developing intimacy requires developing a healthy respect for your mate. Remember what it was that drew you to our partner in the first place. What makes him/her feel like “home” to you? When you have these answers, treat them like mantras you repeat silently throughout the day. Over time, it will become an unconscious act. In those moments when you and your partner are not seeing eye-to-eye -- and these happen for everyone -- the memory of why you are with him/her will renew the respect you have.

Tip # 2: Adult Movies

Adult Movies are a helpful method for spicing up your sex life. Whether or not you have a partner, watching adult films can certainly assist you in improving your skills as a lover, but many of the how-to videos and DVDs are extremely educational from a scientific standpoint. Many feature commentary by medical doctors and licensed sex therapists, who offer invaluable knowledge about how the male and female body functions during sex. In addition, you are often able to view real couples putting lessons they learned into practice, which serves to demonstrate that we are all capable of having satisfying sex lives.

Tip # 3: Fellatio

Fellatio is the technical term for oral sex performed on a man. Its root is from the Latin verb meaning “to suck.” For many men, oral sex is a more intense experience than intercourse. This is due to the concentration of stimulation to the penis by mouth, tongue, and hands. Each man has different areas of concentrated sensitivity, so it’s important for a man to communicate what is pleasurable to him during oral sex. If he is not comfortable speaking out loud about his needs, he should gently guide his lover either with his hands or let her know when she’s doing the right thing by making some oral indication such as telling her he likes what she’s doing or sometimes even just a moan will send the message!

Tip # 4: Prolonging Pleasure

As a general rule, the longer the stimulation, the larger the release. This is true physically as well as mentally. In order to prolong pleasure during lovemaking and prevent male orgasm from occurring too soon, it’s important to start slowly. Even just talking to each other about the sex you’d like to have is a turn-on, and can initiate arousal. Once you begin to touch, you may wish to begin with a backrub or deep kissing before moving to intercourse. Once you do begin making love, you can also bring a man back from the brink of orgasm with a squeezing technique. Just prior to his orgasm, put your thumb on one side of the base of the penis and the tips of your index and middle fingers on the other side, then squeeze.

Tip # 5: Sensual Massage

Sexual technique is not always about doing super tricks in bed. Much of lovemaking occurs before the act of intercourse even begins. In part, knowing how to be a good lover means knowing how to touch. Sensual massage is a wonderful way to connect to your partner, and to learn what feels good to him/her. It is also a very bonding act. Three basic types of massage can be practiced. There’s a general soothing massage, where you simply use oils or lotion and gently rub your lover’s body head to toe. In a body to body massage, you use your own body to assist in the massage, sliding up and down his/he back, using hair, nails or even playful bites. Some massage sessions may progress to masturbating your partner as part of the rub-down. Pay attention to your partner’s reactions as you massage or establish ahead of time what type of massage you will give/receive so that both of you achieve the maximum pleasure.

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Better Sex Cinco De Mayo

For Cinco De Mayo we are doing a spot on our 5 top products in our 5 top categories.

The Better Sex Best of the Best if you will. So how do we determine what is wonderful and what products will never end up on the site at all? You know the toys and movies you see listed on other site but not ours. First, we have you - our wonderful customers telling us what you like best. Second, our sales department tells us what sells the best. And then we do “staff picks”. That’s right we believe in our products so much that we use them ourselves and rank them. Additionally we allow the researchers and PhDs to weigh in, even though they are a bunch of egg heads. Egg heads need love too!

What about all that stuff that never makes it on the site: “Like Cum Swallowing Whores 2” that won the AVN award for best oral? Well, we didn’t think it was so great. We have an adult movie specialist who has watched over 10,000 adult films, so that you don’t have too. Weeding out violent or misogynistic content. He is a great movie critic and the anthology of all things sex. What about that coveted Oh My Lube and Stimulant everyone raved about? Well we liked it too. But there are several other products we feel work just as well so we offer them too. Sure we understand it is all about choice but you can also count on us to weed out everything from the “not so great” to the “never should have been made”. Want to rock you partners world this Cinco De Mayo. Come see our 5 top best of the best

Do Love Drugs Really Work

Cupid In A Bottle:

For thousands of years, people have sought out substances reputed to increase sexual potency, desire and have better sex. Known as aphrodisiacs, these have ranged from powdered rhinoceros horn to ginseng root, from particular foods (oysters, grapes, chocolate) to the dangerous, often deadly dried-beetle concoction known as Spanish fly.

Today we have Viagra, Levitra, and Cialis: pharmaceutical agents that promote erections for men. But these drugs are not a solution for everyone: They don’t work in all men, they are not recommended for people taking certain medications – and, while usually effective in triggering male erection, they do nothing to increase sexual desire in men or women. Sexual desire is different than sexual potency.... Read the rest of the story here.